Monday, December 31, 2012

THE CHRISTMAS PAGEANT


This was sent to me as an email forward.   I had to share...even though I am doing so a bit late!  

THE CHRISTMAS PAGEANT
  


My husband and I had been happily married (most of the time) for five years but hadn't been blessed with a baby.  I decided to do some serious praying and promised God that if he would give us a child, I would be a perfect mother, love it with all my heart and raise it with His Word as my guide.
  


God answered my prayers and blessed us with a son.
  
The next year God blessed us with another son.
  
The following year, He blessed us with yet another son.
  
The year after that we were blessed with a daughter.
  
My husband thought we'd been blessed right into poverty. We now had four children, and the oldest was only four years old.
  


I learned never to ask God for anything unless I meant it.   As a minister once told me, "If you pray for rain, make sure you carry an umbrella."
  
I began reading a few verses of the Bible to the children each day as they lay in their cribs. I was off to a good start. God had entrusted me with four children and I didn't want to disappoint Him. 



I tried to be patient the day the children smashed two dozen eggs on the kitchen floor searching for baby chicks.
  
I tried to be understanding when they started a hotel for homeless frogs in the spare bedroom,
although it took me nearly two hours to catch all twenty-three frogs.
   
When my daughter poured ketchup all over herself and rolled up in a blanket to see how it felt to be a hot dog, I tried to see the humor rather than the mess. 
  In spite of changing over twenty-five thousand diapers, never eating a hot meal and never sleeping for more than thirty minutes at a time, I still thank God daily for my children.

While I couldn't keep my promise to be a perfect mother - I didn't even come close…. However, I did keep my promise to raise them in the Word of God.
    
I knew I was missing the mark just a little when I told my daughter we were going to church to worship God, and she wanted to bring a bar of soap along to "wash up" Jesus, too.
  
Something was lost in the translation when I explained that God gave us everlasting life, and my son thought it was generous of God to give us his "last wife."
  


My proudest moment came during the children's Christmas pageant. My daughter was playing Mary, two of my sons were shepherds and my youngest son was a wise man. This was their moment to shine.
   
My five-year-old shepherd had practiced his line, "We found the babe wrapped in swaddling clothes." But he was nervous and said, "The baby was wrapped in wrinkled clothes."
  
My four-year-old "Mary" said, "That's not 'wrinkled clothes,' silly. That's dirty, rotten clothes."  A wrestling match broke out between Mary and the shepherd and was stopped by an angel, who bent her halo and lost her left wing.
  


I slouched a little lower in my seat when Mary dropped the doll representing Baby Jesus, and it bounced down the aisle crying, "Mama-mama."  Mary ran out and grabbed the doll, wrapped it back up and held it tightly as the wise men arrived.
  
My other son stepped forward wearing a bathrobe and a paper crown, knelt at the manger and announced, "We are the three wise men, and we are bringing gifts of gold, common sense and fur." 
  
The congregation dissolved into laughter, and the pageant got a standing ovation.
  


"I've never enjoyed a Christmas program as much as this one," laughed the pastor, wiping tears from his eyes.   "For the rest of my life, I'll never hear the Christmas story without thinking of gold common sense and fur."
  
"My children are my pride and my joy and my greatest blessing," I said as I dug through my purse for an aspirin.
  
  


Jesus had no servants, yet they called Him Master.  Had no degree, yet they called Him Teacher.  Had no medicines, yet they called Him Healer.  Had no army, yet kings feared Him. He won no military battles, yet He conquered the world.  He committed no crime, yet they crucified Him.  He was buried in a tomb, yet He lives today.

And, just as He promised, He is coming again!!!!!

HAPPY NEW YEAR!



Tuesday, December 11, 2012

MY TALK FOR A LADIES' BRUNCH LAST SATURDAY


Lola’s talk for FAL Ladies’ Christmas Brunch – 12/8/2012

I prefaced my talk by saying I argued with God about what He wanted me to say – that I wanted the ‘fun’ talk – but He specifically told me there was one person who needed to hear what He wanted me to say today – and that I wrote what I would say, or I could talk until tomorrow afternoon.  I also mentioned that as the eldest of the 4 speakers I was there to represent the ‘older’ generation. – Lola

When tragedy enveloped me as a child, I didn’t know who Jesus was – and I didn’t know His comfort.  I was 7 ½ years old when my mother committed suicide April 3rd  1953.  It felt like my world had come to an end….but because of her death, my dad went on a mission to ‘find us a mother’ and he remarried just over 14 months later.  My stepmother got us into church.   My heart was absolutely open to hear about the God who loved me and the Savior who died for me, and when I was 8 ½, I knelt at the altar in a little white A/G church in Wilder, Idaho and asked Jesus to come into my heart.  

Then I grew up, disobeyed God, and married the wrong person. (Which means he married the wrong person, too.)  After a miscarriage and a divorce I was so angry at God for letting me make such a horrible mistake that I decided He didn’t even exist. During the time that I was away from God I met and married Al.  When I was pregnant with our first child, I came terrifyingly close to miscarrying.  I’d already been there and didn’t want to do that again – and in my desperation I prayed to the God I had abandoned, “God, I don’t even know if You are real, but if You are, and if You will save this baby, I will recommit my life to You.”  He did and I did. 

It hasn’t always been easy – but I have been faithful.  I’ve been through plenty of other tough stuff since then – and, in fact, am going through one of the toughest right now – but now I know that no matter what happens I have to place my trust completely in the Lord.   There is nowhere else to turn. 

God’s Word is my greatest source of comfort – and Jesus' words are the most comforting of all: 

“Come to me all you who are weary and burdened and I will give you rest.   Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart and you will find rest for your souls, for my yoke is easy and my burden is light.”  (Matthew 11:28-29)

He tells us, “In this world you will have trouble, but I have overcome the world.”

And He assures us, “I will never leave you or forsake you.” 

When I cling to those promises, I find comfort and I find joy.  True joy. 

Joy is a layered word.    There is a joy that elicits ebullient expressions of delight – pure unbounded visible joy – but there is also a much deeper joy – one that is not defined by emotion – but is an inner assurance that reflects the joy of the Lord in our lives.  That joy is an attitude – and a choice.  It is not dependent on circumstances.  In fact, true joy is based on the reality of having the Lord in our lives.  It is best stated in the phrase, “The joy of the Lord is my strength.” 

The joy of having the Lord in my life is what gives me the strength to face difficulty.  He is my joy and my source of joy! 

There is another way to look at that statement.  It states “the joy of the Lord”….  When I ask myself what the Lord’s joy is – the answer is us!  Everyone who has received Him is His joy.   In fact we are His inheritance.  At the end of the age, we will be presented to Jesus as His gift, His inheritance.  Everything He did, He did for us.  He paid the price for us to have a relationship with God, a relationship with Him.

It is the kind of joy the songwriter experienced when he stood at the rail of the ship and peered into the waters that had taken the lives of his 4 young daughters and wrote the lyrics of IT IS WELL WITH MY SOUL.   

The first announcement of Jesus’ birth was to shepherds in a field who were taking care of the sheep.  Luke tells us that an angel of the Lord appeared to them – told them not to be afraid  (Don’t you just love it how angels always say, “Don’t be afraid?”) – then proclaimed, “Behold I bring you good news of great joy that will be for all the people.  Today, in the City of David, a Savior has been born to you.  He is the Messiah, the Lord.” 

That Good News of great joy is the best good news ever given – and it is good news of great joy to us as well…. 

There is enormous joy that is yet to come!   Jesus promised before He left the earth, “I go to prepare a place for you, and if I go I will surely come again and take you to myself.  His coming could be very, very soon!  We are living in uncertain times.  Every prophecy that had to be fulfilled for the Lord to return, has been – and now we are just waiting for His timing. 

One thing I have learned in life is that God deserves our praise and worship no matter what our circumstances….   I cannot promise you a path of ease.   In fact, quite the opposite.   I have heard many people say that the Lord will never give you more than you can handle.  The truth is, not everything that happens to us is from the Lord.  Sometimes it is because of our own bad choices – or someone else’s poor choice.  (Sometimes life is a four-letter word.*)  I have had more than I could handle on multiple occasions, but I have never had more than He can handle.   He walks with us through everything! 

Whatever life brings our way, it will be worth it all when we see Jesus. 

He is my comfort.  He is my joy!

12/9/postscript
I wish I had clearly stated that while He doesn’t take away the memory, He does take away the pain.

My current pain is not because of what happened back then – it is because of now….but I definitely am aware of His HOPE and comfort even in the valley. 

*This statement was not in what I originally wrote  – it was an unscripted comment….which would most likely have been better left unsaid....